Shabbat-O-Gram

 

May 23, 2008 – Iyar 18 5768 – Omer Day 33

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

In Memoriam … to all who have given their lives in service of our country

 

 

And …Happy Lag B’Omer!

 

What is Lag B'Omer? - from Wikipedia

…and from the classic Jewish Encyclopedia

 

 

This Shabbat-O-Gram is sponsored by Adina and Damian Senatore

in honor of their son, Marc becoming a  Bar Mitzvah.

 

 

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A full collection of past articles, sermons and essays can now be found at my new blog at  http://joshuahammerman.blogspot.com/

 

Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

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Just the Facts

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi    

 Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

 Spiritual Journey on the Web

    The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

Masechet Cyberspace   (NEW)

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life) 

Joke for the Week

 

 

TBE Family Album (NEW)

 

See the video produced by Kulanu Students

who recently returned from

The March of the Living

 

Quote for the Week

 

“Though some were knocked over and lying on their sides,

you knew that at least every one of these people had been loved at some point in their lives.”

 

From the journal of one of our teens on March of the Living,

upon seeing overturned stones in a Jewish cemetery

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

TEFILLAT HA-DERECH

(THE WAYFARER’S PRAYER)

 

For those traveling over the holiday weekend:

 

Hebrew Text

יְהִי רָצוֹן מִלְפָנֶיךָ ה' אֱ-לֹהֵינוּ וֵא-לֹהֵי אֲבוֹתֵינוּ, שֶתּוֹלִיכֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם וְתַצְעִידֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם. וְתִסְמְכֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם. וְתַדְרִיכֵנוּ לְשָלוֹם. וְתַגִיעֵנוּ לִמְחוֹז חֶפְצֵנוּ לְחַיִּים וּלְשִמְחָה וּלְשָלוֹם וְתַצִּילֵנוּ מִכַּף כָּל אוֹיֵב וְאוֹרֵב וְלִסְטִים וְחַיּוֹת רָעוֹת בַדֶּרֶךְ וּמִכָּל מִינֵי פּוּרְעָנִיּוֹת הַמִתְרַגְּשוֹת לָבוֹא לָעוֹלָם וְתִשְלַח בְּרָכָה בְּכל מַעֲשֵה יָדֵינוּ, וְתִתְּנֵנוּ לְחֵן וּלְחֶסֶד וּלְרַחֲמִים בְעֵינֶיךָ וּבְעֵינֵי כָל רוֹאֵינוּ וְתִשְמַע קוֹל תַּחֲנוּנֵינוּ. כִּי אֵ-ל שוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלָּה וְתַחֲנוּן אתה: בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה', שוֹמֵעַ תְּפִלָּה.

Transliteration

Y'hi ratzon milfanekha A-donai E-loheinu ve-lohei avoteinu she-tolikhenu l'shalom v'tatz'idenu l'shalom v'tadrikhenu l'shalom, v'tagi'enu limhoz heftzenu l'hayim ul-simha ul-shalom. V'tatzilenu mi-kaf kol oyev v'orev v'listim v'hayot ra'ot ba-derekh, u-mi-kol minei pur'aniyot ha-mitrag'shot la-vo la-olam. V'tishlah b'rakha b'khol ma'a'se yadeinu v'tit'nenu l'hen ul-hesed ul-rahamim b'einekha uv-einei khol ro'einu. V'tishma kol tahanuneinu ki E-l sho'me'a t'fila v'tahanun ata. Barukh ata A-donai sho'me'a t'fila.

English Translation

May it be Your will, LORD, our God and the God of our ancestors, that You lead us toward peace, guide our footsteps toward peace, and make us reach our desired destination for life, gladness, and peace. May You rescue us from the hand of every foe, ambush along the way, and from all manner of punishments that assemble to come to earth. May You send blessing in our handiwork, and grant us grace, kindness, and mercy in Your eyes and in the eyes of all who see us. May You hear the sound of our humble request because You are God Who hears prayer requests. Blessed are You, Adonai, Who hears prayer.

YouTube Video - IDF Soldiers recite prayer for a safe journey (Tefilat HaDerech) in their tank.

 

Candle lighting: 7:54 pm on Friday, May 23, 2008.  For Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/.  The United Synagogue has updated its candlelighting information. To learn more, click here.

 

 

THE FULL SERVICE SCHEDULE NOW APPEARS ON THE SEPARATE TBE ANNOUNCEMENTS E-MAIL

Friday Night Shabbat Services:

 

6:30 – Main Service –outdoors, weather permitting

Tot Shabbat at 6:45, in the lobby

 

Shabbat Morning:

 

Mazal tov to Marc Senatore, son of Damian and Adina, brother of Richard and Natalia,

who becomes Bar Mitzvah this Shabbat morning

 

 

Morning Minyan:  7:30 Weekdays, 9:30 Sundays

9:00 AM on Memorial Day (Monday) – and we have a Guaranteed Minyan Request for that day

 

PLEASE COME TO MINYAN!

TO ENSURE A “GUARANTEED MINYAN” FOR THE DAY OF YOUR YAHRZEIT – GO TO THE ROSNER MINYAN MAKER AT WWW.TBE.ORG AND THEN NOTIFY OUR OFFICE.

Now you can become more comfortable with the prayers of our morning service by heading to…

 

http://www.tbe.org/site/sog/minyanmastery.htm

 

 

Parashat Behukotai

Leviticus 26:3 - 27:34

 

1: 26:3-5
2: 26:6-9
3: 26:10-46
4: 27:1-4
5: 27:5-8
6: 27:9-11
7: 27:12-15
maf: 27:12-15

 

Haftarah Jeremiah 16:19 - 17:14

Text Studies and Commentaries on Behukotai

From www.myjewishlearning.com

 

Click here for a summary of B’hukotai

Text Studies

Faith In Difficult Times by Rabbi Andrea Lerner

Provided by Hillel’s Joseph Meyerhoff Center for Jewish Learning, which creates educational resources for Jewish organizations on college campuses.

Commentaries

The Blessing of Rain by Jonathan Neril

Provided by Canfei Nesharim, providing Torah wisdom about the importance of protecting our environment.

 

Corrupt Leadership by Carol Towarnicky

Provided by American Jewish World Service, pursuing global justice through grassroots change.

 

Preserving The Covenant by Dvora Weisberg

Provided by CLAL: The National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, a multi-denominational think tank and resource center.

 

Stubbornness And Chance by Rabbi Avraham Fischer

Provided by the Orthodox Union, the central coordinating agency for North American Orthodox congregations.

 

Science Vs. Sabbath? by Lawrence Bush and Jeffrey Dekro

Provided by SocialAction.com, an on-line Jewish magazine dedicated to pursuing justice, building community, and repairing the world.

 

No Food, No Torah; No Torah, No Food by Rabbi Marcia Plumb

Provided by the Union for Reform Judaism, the central body of Reform Judaism in North America.

 

Unifying Towards Redemption by David Frankel

Provided by the UJA-Federation of New York, which cares for those in need, strengthens Jewish peoplehood, and fosters Jewish renaissance.

 

 

The (occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Kulanu Graduate Address

By Alexander Aflalo

 

(Alexander Aflalo gave this stirring commencement address at the graduation of Kulanu this past Wednesday night, which included some reflections on the “March of the Living.”  I thank him for granting permission to reprint it here. Congratulations and best of luck to Alexander and to all the other Kulanu graduates who “only yesterday” appeared on Beth El’s bima as b’nai and b’not mitzvah and now are headed for college: Rachel Cohen, Dara Gold, Matt Hirtenstein, Amanda Jablon, Ariel Poser, Taylor Ross and Danielle Shapiro)

 

Kulanu. It is a name it is a word, a place, a state of being. In Hebrew it means “together,” and over the past four years I have truly come to understand and experience its meaning.

 

When I first started in this program at the beginning of my high school years, the name Kulanu was just that, a name, a word that had no influence on my life. However one of my first classes here, an “improv” class, changed that. When I entered the room I was able to let go and be myself, it was a place where together, we could all be free. In the following years I found myself once again one among many, a member of a group, whether it was one out of two or twenty.

 

Kulanu is where I went to open up and relax after school; I would look forward to that Wednesday night every week. Kulanu is where I wanted to be, for so many reasons: Discussing theology and the Jewish faith between Simpsons episodes, enjoying chocolate donuts and cookies at snack while watching playful delinquents pepper each other with crumbs and chocolate bits. I can remember bringing my juggling balls to practice or just fool around, that is, until I lent them to some long forgotten individuals who proceeded to throw them at each other, ending with some broken glass and a lost juggling ball. And I haven’t juggled at the temple since.

 

But Kulanu has been more than just a place for fun and relaxation with members of the Jewish community; it was a place where I learned. I journeyed from the rich history of our ancestors, to the horrors of the Holocaust and beyond into the hopes and dreams of the future and the state of Israel. But all of these teachings were confined to the pages of a book, or the grain of a photograph. What I learned here had merely whetted my interest for something more.

 

At the end of last month, my classmates and I here at Kulanu, embarked on a life-changing odyssey through the concentration camps of Poland, and into the proud and beautiful land of Israel. The death camps, the hollow ghettos, the open fields that wept with every rush of wind, all were perfect nightmares. It even seemed to rain on cue. This trip took us from the lowest valleys to the highest mountain tops, from mourning over the sullen grounds of Birkenau, wet with rain and tears, to literally singing with joy on a plane over Tel Aviv. But through it all, I managed to keep my peace of mind by the simple fact that we were together, whether that meant huddling in the pouring rain to listen to the personal tragedies of a Holocaust survivor, or dancing on the eve of Shabbat, arms locked together.

 

I found my sanity, my joy, my pride, in Kulanu.

 

TBE Annual Meeting 

 

I hope to see many of you at our annual meeting this coming Wednesday evening at 8 PM.  Although there are no major controversies to discuss, now would be the perfect time to step into a dread-free meeting, where it will feels unambiguously good to be here.  There are lots of good things happening, and you need to hear about them.  You may even be amazed, in fact, to hear how good things are.   We also have our challenges, and some are still daunting; but somehow, even the most lofty goals feel more attainable now.

 

As I usually do, I’ll be laying out some of my goals and visions for the upcoming year.  One of those goals has been to facilitate more visioning and team building among our leadership, and to that end, I’m looking forward to hosting our board at my home for a special planning session on June 1. 

 

The annual meeting gives us a chance to thank volunteers for their hard work and in particular, board members and professionals who have completed their terms or are otherwise leaving.  I hope you will join me in thanking all of them next week.  At the same time, we’ll be welcoming and officially electing our new board.  From top to bottom, the list of nominees is filled with people of incredible dedication, vision and menschlichkite.  Congratulations to them – and thank you for taking on this important work.  The board – and our congregation – are now poised to accomplish great things.

 

 

Congratulations to our Newly Elected USY Board!

  • President: Mitchell Shapiro
  • SATO: Jon Arons
  • Communications VP: Ali Pomerance and Billy Harris
  • Rel Ed: Jackie Schechter
  • Mem/Kad: Chad Weissman and Peri Shapiro
  • Israel Affairs: Daniele Mizrachi
  • Synaplex Liaison: Dan Hammerman

Thank you to Youth Advisor Ariela Pelaia for coordinating a fair and constructive election, assisted by Ethan Hammerman, who was also recently elected to the regional USY Board as VP for Re. Ed.  Each candidate wrote a position paper that was shared with all members of our chapter.  Those who did not win election have been invited to be part of the leadership group in an advisory capacity.  Ariela will be stepping down to pursue a very busy schedule. We’ll miss her (though our teens will still see her at Kulanu) and we are delighted that Darren Bahar has agreed to become our Youth Advisor for the coming year.

 

Where They Stand on Global Warming

 

This has not been a very good few months for the earth.  The horrors in China and Myanmar are mind-boggling, and nearly Biblical in proportion; worldwide food shortages are causing riots, we face a growing energy crisis and record-shattering devastation from tornadoes.  And then, at long last, just a week ago the polar bear was declared a threatened (though not yet endangered) species.  Mazal tov to the polar bear.  Of all these alarming trends, only the earthquake can’t be tied directly to global warming.

 

I discussed all this in my sermon last week, which coincided perfectly with the portion describing the Sabbatical and Jubilee years and our relationship with the land.  I’ve included some key sites for an understanding of the Jewish perspective on environmentalism – see the Web Journey below.  Meanwhile, in this political season, here is what the candidates are saying:

Source: Chicago Tribune

 John McCain: Gave a major speech this week on greenhouse gas emissions that was well-timed—two days before the polar bear became the first species named to the endangered species list primarily because of global warming. Criticized President George W. Bush's record on climate change. Differs from many in the GOP by calling for a market-based cap-and-trade system under which businesses could meet emissions standards by either cutting their pollution output or buying credits from more efficient producers. Aims to cut emissions by 60 percent below 1990 levels by 2050.

Barack Obama: Says the U.S. —"a land of moon shots and miracles of science and technology"—must take the lead in fighting global warming. Calls for a major government effort to find cleaner energy technologies "from biofuels to solar power to carbon sequestration." Like McCain and Hillary Clinton, favors a cap-and-trade system under which businesses would limit emissions or buy credits from more efficient producers. Sets goal of an 80 percent emissions cut by 2050, the same goal as Clinton's and higher than McCain's level of 60 percent.

Hillary Clinton: Calls for addressing global warming "with a whole new era of innovation—let's call it Energy 2.0." Would require that publicly traded companies report financial risks due to climate change in their reports to the federal Securities and Exchange Commission. Like McCain and Obama, favors a cap-and-trade system under which businesses would limit emissions or buy credits from more efficient producers. Sets goal of an 80 percent emissions cut by 2050, the same level as Obama's and higher than McCain's 60 percent.

 

 

 

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

 

Beth El Cares:

Inreach and Outreach

 

Mitzvah Suggestions for the Week

 

 

BONE MARROW REGISTRY DRIVE

Thursday, June 5, 2008, 10:00 am – 2:00 pm

Temple Sholom, Greenwich

Thursday June 19th 10:00am-3:00PM

Greenwich Town Hall

 

“He who saves one life, it is as if he had saved the entire world” -Talmud

 

Dear Friends,

 

I am writing to you to let you know about a chance to make a difference and save someone’s life. Many children and adults have been diagnosed with fatal blood diseases that can only be cured by bone marrow transplants.    Chances for a match increase significantly if the patient and potential donor share the same ethnic background.  A member of our community, Nina Weld, is in a race against time to save her brother, Alan Rimm-Kaufman. He urgently needs a bone marrow transplant. He is only 40 years old and has 2 small children.  We are asking people of Jewish heritage to consider adding their name to the National Morrow Donor program. We, along with other Synagogues and various other groups in the Fairfield County, are conducting a search for an unrelated donor. There is a huge need to add Jewish people to the registry in order to save lives. Only a very small percentage of people on the National list are of Jewish descent.

 

What does it entail? A simple cotton swab in the mouth is all it takes to register. Registering as a potential donor doesn’t obligate you to be a donor. You must be between the ages of 18-60 and be in general good health. The entire drive is being generously underwritten by an anonymous donor. 

 

If you can help Alan and some many others like him in our community, please come to Temple Sholom, 300 East Putnam Ave, Greenwich CT on Thursday June 5th  from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm or Greenwich Town Hall, 101 Field Point Road, Greenwich, CT on Thursday June 19th from 10:00 to 3 pm. Look for America Red Cross signs.

 

Thank you for your consideration. Please feel free to forward this message.

 

Sincerely,

 

 Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

 

Contacts:

Nina Weld 203-622-9118 nweld@optonline.net

National Marrow Donor Program 888-298-6571 ext. 101 www.marrow.org

 

 

Mitzvah Opportunity – “Hachnasat Orchim” – welcoming a guest

 

Accommodations needed:  A Wesleyan professor will be bringing her 8 year old son to the Stamford area to attend a reading program for children with Dyslexia.  They are looking for someone to stay with for the following dates:  June 1-6, June 8-13 and June 22-27.  If you would be able to provide accommodations for one or more of these dates, please contact Lisa at (860) 368-2482 or email her at ldierker@Wesleyan.edu.

 

 

 

 

Special Request from Nancy Leferman

 

I will be going through a desensitization protocol at the Dana Farber Cancer Center, which involves a procedure that will allow me to get the medicine that put me into remission a number of years ago.  Unfortunately when we tried to use it again, I had had a bad allergic reaction.  This desensitization program (under very controlled circumstances and environment) will hopefully allow me to get the medication without incident.  And again hopefully will put me into a long remission while the cancer researchers are diligently working on finding magic bullets for all kinds of cancers including mine.

 

As you all know, I have relied on my village for both support and laughter as a way of getting through so in that vein I have two requests.

 

1.  One of my healers suggested that I ask a few people (she has no idea what a “few” means to me!!!!!) to send me a funny card.  I will collect them and open them while I am in the ICU at Dana Farber on an extremely slow drip IV and I will laugh.  So please start sending me cards and ask your other friends and their other friends and so on and so on and so on to send me the funniest card they can and mail them to me at:

 

                   Nancy Leferman

                   143 Hoyt Street  Apt 7N

                   Stamford, CT  06905

 

I am not sure when I will be starting this program but I am asking you all to start this funny card chain now.

 

2.  I wholeheartedly believe in the power of prayer so every time I cross your mind, please say two prayers (if you don’t mind) -- the first one would be that I get through the desensitization protocol without incident and the second one would be that it of course puts me into remission.

 

I thank you all in advance.

 

With lots of love,

Nancy

 

 

 

 

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STAND UP FOR ISRAEL!

Join Rabbi Hammerman at the AIPAC Policy Conference, June 2-4

For more information, go to www.aipac.org

To see the full conference schedule, go to http://www.aipac.org/about_AIPAC/Learn_About_AIPAC/2841_12377.asp

 

Just Confirmed!

AIPAC Policy Conference 2008 – Monday, Tuesday & Wednesday, June 2-4