Shabbat-O-Gram

 

 

May 30-June 6, 2008 – Iyar 25 – Sivan 4 5768 – Omer Day 40

 

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman, Temple Beth El, Stamford, Connecticut

 

 

THERE WILL BE NO SHABBAT-O-GRAM NEXT WEEK

 

Happy Jerusalem Day &

Happy Shavuot

What is Shavuot?

 

Look for my dispatches from the AIPAC conference next week.

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Contents of the Shabbat O Gram:

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Just the Facts

The (Occasionally) Ranting Rabbi   

 Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

Ask the Rabbi

 Spiritual Journey on the Web

    The Beth El Bar/Bat Mitzvah Commentary

Masechet Cyberspace   (NEW)

Required Reading and Action Items (links to key articles on Israel and Jewish life) 

Joke for the Week

 

TBE Family Album (NEW)

 

 

Quote for the Week

 

 "We are taught to plant our feet carefully on Mother Earth

because the faces of all future generations are looking up from it."

- A chief of the Iroquois nation

 

 

JUST THE FACTS

 

 

Candle lighting: 8:00 pm on Friday, May 30, 2008.  For Havdalah times, other Jewish calendar information, and to download a Jewish calendar to your PDA, click on http://www.hebcal.com/.  To see the festivals of other faiths as well, go to http://www.interfaithcalendar.org/.  The United Synagogue has updated its candlelighting information. To learn more, click here.

 

 

THE FULL SERVICE SCHEDULE NOW APPEARS ON THE SEPARATE TBE ANNOUNCEMENTS E-MAIL

Friday Night Shabbat Services:

SHABBAT UNPLUGGED AT 7:30

Shabbat Morning at 9:30

Tot Shabbat morning with Nurit and Jr Congregation with Carol Elkies at 10:30

 

Mazal Tov to...

Nancy and Evan Finchler on the naming of their daughter, Lana Jade. 

 

NEXT WEEK!!!

Celebrate Shavuot!

 

 

SHAVUOT AT SINAI – TBE joins Temple Sinai for our ANNUAL TIKKUN LEIL SHAVUOT

Sunday, June 8th at 8:15 p.m. at Temple Sinai, 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford, CT

“Shall Your People Be My People?” 

 A Learning Conversation on Conversion with Rabbi Marc Disick of Temple Sinai and Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

 

On Monday, June 9th at TBE services begin at 9:30 a.m. with Tot Shavuot at 10:30 a.m.

We will roll open a Torah so that kids (of all ages) can receive the Torah again!

Following services, join us for Kiddush including PIZZA and BLINTZES!

 

On Tuesday, June 10th at TBE services begin at 9:30 a.m. with Tot Shavuot at 10:30 a.m.

We will recite Yizkor.

 

Following services join us for CHEESECAKE and MAKE YOUR OWN SUNDAE!

 

Parashat B’midbar

Numbers 1:1 - 4:20

 

1: 1:1-4
2: 1:5-16
3: 1:17-19
4: 1:20-27
5: 1:28-35
6: 1:36-43
7: 1:44-54
maf: 1:52-54

 

Haftarah Hosea 2:1 - 2:22

Text Studies and Commentaries on B’midbar

 

From www.myjewishlearning.com

 

Numbers 1:1-4:20

Click here for a summary of B’midbar.

Text Studies

Making Sense Of The Census by Rabbi Leslie Bergson Provided by Hillel’s Joseph Meyerhoff Center for Jewish Learning, which creates educational resources for Jewish organizations on college campuses.

 A Map Of Pluralism by Rabbi Neal Joseph Loevinger Provided by KOLEL--The Adult Centre for Liberal Jewish Learning, which is affiliated with Canada's Reform movement.

 Naming Names by Rabbi Eric H. Yoffie Provided by the Union of American Hebrew Congregations, the central body of Reform Judaism in North America.

Commentaries

Spiritual Lessons of the Desert by Rabbi Jack Bieler Provided by Canfei Nesharim, providing Torah wisdom about the importance of protecting our environment.

Two Halves of a Whole by Rabbi Dorothy A. Richman Provided by American Jewish World Service, pursuing global justice through grassroots change.

 On Child Soldiering by Noam Katz Provided by American Jewish World Service, pursuing global justice through grassroots change.

 Self-Accounting in the Wilderness by Rabbi Kerry Olitzky Provided by the Jewish Outreach Institute, an organization dedicated to creating a more open and welcoming Judaism.

 Through The Wilderness by Irwin Kula Provided by CLAL: The National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, a multi-denominational think tank and resource center.

 What Is Parenting? by Rabbi Bradley Shavit Artson Provided by the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies, which ordains Conservative rabbis at the University of Judaism.

 Questioning Chronology by Rabbi Avraham Fischer Provided by the Orthodox Union, the central coordinating agency for North American Orthodox congregations.

 Standing Guard by Rabbi Phil Miller Provided by SocialAction.com, an on-line Jewish magazine dedicated to pursuing justice, building community, and repairing the world.

 

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The (occasionally) Ranting Rabbi

Are You An Optimist? 

 

Last week’s curse-filled, depressing portion, prompted a wonderful d’var Torah by our bar mitzvah (see it below) and further discussion on Judaism, pessimism and optimism.  Judaism is a glass half full religion, but unfortunately, we’ve had a glass mostly empty history.  So last week’s portion had a few token verses describing the blessings that would befall us if we obey the commandments, and then fully 36 verses describing the most gruesome negative consequences imaginable, complete with horrific visions of parents being compelled by hunger to eat their young.  It is noteworthy that traditional commentators like Rashi bend over backwards to find a bright side of these foreboding passages.  It’s almost Monty Pythonesque to see how far they go to “always look on the bright side of life.” As Nehama Leibowitz wrote in her commentary on Behukotai: “Our Parashah thus reflects the principle, which our sages discerned throughout Scriptures, whereby the measure of Divine Goodness outweighs that of Divine retribution (cf. Yoma 76a).”

 

At the annual meeting this week, I spoke of the need to become realistic optimists.  In charging the new board, I mentioned that it is most important (for any leader of any institution, but particularly a synagogue) to check negativity at the door.  I mentioned that were I not such an optimist, with unwavering faith in this congregation and in the future, it wouldn’t be easy for me to remain a rabbi.  But just to check out my own leanings, I took an optimism text, at http://www.stanford.edu/class/msande271/onlinetools/LearnedOpt.html.  My scores revealed, no surprise, that I am moderately to very optimistic. The scores are explained at http://www.spiritualityhealth.com/cgi/optimism.cgi.  You can take a different test at http://www.testcafe.com/opt/opt.html.

 

While human nature, genetics and experience play a significant rile in formulating our outlooks, optimism is something that can be learned.  These tests are hardly foolproof, and, as an upcoming bar mitzvah student recently reminded me, “the glass is half full if I am filling it up but half empty if I am drinking it.” 

In other words it all depends on one’s perspective.  Hopefulness is in the eye of the beholder.

 

 

The Problem in Postville

 

 

Worker Abuses Alleged At AgriProcessors

 

WHEN IS KOSHER MEAT NOT REALLY “KOSHER” AFTER ALL??? 

 

This complicated case has received front page treatment and highlights the moral dimension of our dietary laws.  Read on…

Iowa immigration raid defendant cases completed

DES MOINES, Iowa (AP) May 23 — Nearly 300 workers arrested last week in an immigration raid at a northeast Iowa meatpacking plant have reached plea deals and face deportation proceedings, authorities say.  The U.S. attorney's office said Thursday that 302 workers from the Agriprocessors plant in Postville were charged with federal crimes after the May 12 raid. Of those, 297 have pleaded guilty and were sentenced to prison time or probation.  The remaining five have cases pending in federal court. Charges include use of false identification documents and false use of Social Security numbers.  U.S. Attorney Matt M. Dummermuth says the operation was the largest single-site immigration raid in U.S. history.

 

A Statement by the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism

And the Rabbinical Assembly

Regarding Rubashkin’s Meat Products

 

New York, NY (May 22, 2008) - In response to the continuing disturbing allegations of unacceptable worker conditions at the Agriprocessors plant in Postville, Iowa, the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism and the Rabbinical Assembly is united in their request that consumers of kosher meat evaluate whether it is appropriate to buy and eat meat products produced by the Rubashkin’s label.

 

Rubashkin’s produces kosher meat primarily under the Rubashkin’s, Aaron and David label at the Agriprocessors facility. It is a major producer of kosher meat and poultry in the United States. The allegations about the terrible treatment of workers employed by Rubashkin’s has shocked and appalled members of the Conservative Movement as well as all people of conscience. As Kashrut seeks to diminish animal suffering and offer a humane method of slaughter, it is bitterly ironic that a plant producing kosher meat be guilty of inflicting any kind of human suffering.

 

The Rabbinical Assembly and United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism will immediately release an advisory to its members and constituents asking them to evaluate whether it is appropriate to consume Rubashkin products until this situation is addressed. This advisory extends not only to products bought on the retail level but to meat and poultry bought at restaurants and for such private functions as weddings and bar mitzvahs.

 

As the month of Sivan approaches, Jews throughout the world are mindful of the Torah’s message of the power of kedushah, holiness as it applies to all aspects of our lives including the ethics of worker treatment and food production. It is hoped that Conservative synagogues, schools and summer camps engage in a study of this important topic in honor of the festival of Shavuot – beginning this year on June 8th -- which commemorates the giving of the Torah.

 

A valuable source for such study is Hekshsher Tzedek Al Pi Din, a paper written by Rabbi Avraham Reisner. It is a companion to the Hekhsher Tzedek Policy Statement and Working Guidelines. The paper is available on the websites of the Rabbinical Assembly (www.rabbinicalassembly.org) and the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (www.uscj.org).

 

By releasing this advisory, the Conservative movement endorses the vision and guidance of the Hekhsher Tzedek commission. Hekhsher Tzedek is an initiative of the Rabbinical Assembly and United Synagogue that seeks to create an ethical certification process for kosher food. Through its work, Hekhsher Tzedek seeks to strengthen the bond between halakha and social justice.

 

The reports of unacceptable worker conditions at the Agriprocessors plant demonstrate the pressing need for the sort of ethical oversight which might be provided by Hekhsher Tzedek.

 

WHAT IS HECHSHER TZEDEK? http://hekhshertzedek.org/

MAKING KASHRUT RELEVANT

Hekhsher Tzedek is bringing Jewish values in food production front and center, sometimes for the first time, to any consumer of kosher products. 

Keeping kosher is a central part of Jewish identity and this initiative will engage consumers in social justice as well as reinforce the relevance of kashrut to contemporary life. 

It will demonstrate that both ritual and ethical commandments (mitzvoth) have an equal place at our tables and that isolating one at the expense of the other is to do a disservice to Jewish tradition and the meaning of kashrut. 

Hekhsher Tzedek will also show that Judaism speaks to the greater community about the meaning of compassion, fairness and the presence of one G-d.

 

STANDARDS

Hekhsher Tzedek certification is based on a company’s adherence to standards in five separate categories:

wages and benefits

health, safety and Training

environmental impact

product development

corporate transparency

Each of these categories will be evaluated in a uniform, objective and verifiable manner, consistent with appropriate Jewish legal and ethical concerns.

For more on Hechsher Tzedek, , see “Ask the Rabbi” below.

 

 

 

 

Mitzvah/Tzedakkah Opportunities

 

Beth El Cares:

Inreach and Outreach

 

 

Best of luck to all walkers and marchers this weekend,

whether at the Bennett Cancer Center walk, the Salute to Israel Parade

or the Walk to Cure Diabetes.

As Abraham Joshua Heschel said, you will be praying with your feet!

 

 

Mitzvah Suggestions for the Week

 

 

Visit www.CaringBridge.org

 

I had the chance this week to send a healing message to a child in our extended TBE family.

Caring Bridge is really an extension of the Jewish concept of Bikur Holim, visiting the sick – extended to cyberspace. 

 

What is Bikur Holim?

 

The Talmud teaches that simply by visiting, by being there, we can reduce the illness by 1/60th.

Even virtual visits can help to heal.

 

 

CaringBridge enables people to create free, personalized websites

that support and connect loved ones during critical illness, treatment and recovery.

 

Read more about Caring Bridge here

 

 

 

BONE MARROW REGISTRY DRIVE

Thursday, June 5, 2008, 10:00 am – 2:00 pm

Temple Sholom, Greenwich

Thursday June 19th 10:00am-3:00PM

Greenwich Town Hall

 

“He who saves one life, it is as if he had saved the entire world” -Talmud

 

Dear Friends,

 

I am writing to you to let you know about a chance to make a difference and save someone’s life. Many children and adults have been diagnosed with fatal blood diseases that can only be cured by bone marrow transplants.    Chances for a match increase significantly if the patient and potential donor share the same ethnic background.  A member of our community, Nina Weld, is in a race against time to save her brother, Alan Rimm-Kaufman. He urgently needs a bone marrow transplant. He is only 40 years old and has 2 small children.  We are asking people of Jewish heritage to consider adding their name to the National Morrow Donor program. We, along with other Synagogues and various other groups in the Fairfield County, are conducting a search for an unrelated donor. There is a huge need to add Jewish people to the registry in order to save lives. Only a very small percentage of people on the National list are of Jewish descent.

 

What does it entail? A simple cotton swab in the mouth is all it takes to register. Registering as a potential donor doesn’t obligate you to be a donor. You must be between the ages of 18-60 and be in general good health. The entire drive is being generously underwritten by an anonymous donor. 

 

If you can help Alan and some many others like him in our community, please come to Temple Sholom, 300 East Putnam Ave, Greenwich CT on Thursday June 5th  from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm or Greenwich Town Hall, 101 Field Point Road, Greenwich, CT on Thursday June 19th from 10:00 to 3 pm. Look for America Red Cross signs.

 

Thank you for your consideration. Please feel free to forward this message.

 

Sincerely,

 

 Rabbi Joshua Hammerman

 

Contacts:

Nina Weld 203-622-9118 nweld@optonline.net

National Marrow Donor Program 888-298-6571 ext. 101 www.marrow.org

 

 

 

Seeking part-time translator (German to English)

Seeking part-time translator (German to English) for documents of World War II period, relating to Jewish victims and survivors of Holocaust, obtained recently from Red Cross International Tracing Service.  Flexible hours, good pay, informal and friendly office in Westport.  Interested persons should contact Dr. William Fern by email at whfern@aol.com or by phone at 203-222-1879.

 

 

Mitzvah Opportunity – “Hachnasat Orchim” – Welcoming a Guest

 

Accommodations needed:  A Wesleyan professor will be bringing her 8 year old son to the Stamford area to attend a reading program for children with Dyslexia.  They are looking for someone to stay with for the following dates:  June 1-6, June 8-13 and June 22-27.  If you would be able to provide accommodations for one or more of these dates, please contact Lisa at (860) 368-2482 or email her at ldierker@Wesleyan.edu.

 

 

Condolences to a former teacher in our school, an old friend of the congregation

 

Larry Orbach's rich life has come to its peaceful end. The funeral was be held at 11 a.m. on Wednesday, May 28,  in his beloved neighborhood synagogue of the last several years: Talmud Torah Adereth El,  135 East 29th Street, between Third and Lexington Avenues. (212-685-0241).  Ricky Orbach and Vivien Orbach-Smith will sit shiva in Larry's apartment from Wednesday, May 28 (beginning at 7 pm) through Tuesday morning, June 3rd.  Evening minyan (service) will begin at 8pm and morning minyan will be at 7 a.m. The address is 340 East 29th Street between First and Second Avenues, Apt 2C. (212-532-5866.)  Please inform anyone who you think might care to receive this information. Sorry if some of you receive it more than once.  Remembering with love "Lotharschen"/Eliezer ben Myrtle v Aharon Ha'Cohen. May the family be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

 

BAR/BAT MITZVAH PROJECTS

 

 

 

 

Dear Friend,

               As part of our Bar and Bat Mitzvah projects, we are conducting a walk-a-thon to raise money and awareness for juvenile diabetes.  Juvenile diabetes is a disease that causes the body to have trouble regulating its blood sugar levels.  Also known as type 1 diabetes, juvenile diabetics must either take two insulin shots a day, or use an insulin pump for continuous injections.  In addition, they have to test their blood sugar six times a day by pricking their finger.  13,000 children in the U.S. are diagnosed with juvenile diabetes each year.  That is 35 new cases every day!   This disease affects almost 200 million people worldwide.  Both of us have friends and family members with diabetes, which is why we have chosen this organization and cause to contribute to.

               We thank you for supporting our cause and we hope you do your best to help support juvenile diabetes.  Here’s how you can help:

 

  1. Make your own donation to JDRF (www.walk.jdrf.org) or send a donation to JDRF, 200 Connecticut Avenue, 5H, Norwalk, CT 06854 and mark in the memo Westhill High School Walk.

 

  1. Ask your friends and family to donate to JDRF. People can donate online at www.JDRF.org -- just look up Brian Pollack or Lindsay Bralower (they are listed separately).  Or people can write a check

 

  1. Come and support JDRF by participating in our walk on Sunday June 1st at WESTHILL HIGH SCHOOL (125 Roxbury Road) at  12:15 pm.  Your friends and family can sponsor you!  We will collect your donation forms there (see attached form).

 

If you would like to donate or participate, or if you have any questions, please let us know.  You can contact us at:

 

         Brian Pollack: (203)967-4756               Bpollack5@yahoo.com

         Lindsay Bralower: (203)329-8394 Linzdb1234@yahoo.com

 

 

Lunch and snacks will be provided for participants

 

Sincerely,

Brian Pollack and Lindsay Bralower

 

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 I love baseball and many other sports, like basketball, lacrosse, football and soccer. For my mitzvah project, I would like to gather new or used sports equipment to donate to organizations in Stamford, such as the Boys and Girls Club, to use in their children’s afterschool and summer recreation programs.  As spring training comes to an end and you buy new equipment to start your regular season, please see if you have any old equipment that you can donate such as-balls, bats, mitts, shin guards, cleats, etc.  A donation bin will be set up outside the Temple office.

 

Thank you.